We all know him. We all have this guy in our circle of friends... and if you don't think you do then you might be that guy. The desperate player.I guess I have always been lucky in the relationship department. Not to say I haven't been hurt and had a few falling outs but for the most part I haven't had too many problems with my love life. It seems simple, you like someone then tell them how they make you feel. If they like what you have to say go from there. Too many guys (one friend in particular) think it they can determine what to say and how to approach a girl by the time of day and amount of liquor consumed. They find themselves chasing women week in and week out. Every weekend he has the same goal, which is to find someone who likes them.
The problem is that they don't really like themselves. They think a girl is going to make everything complete. Julius Kelp (Jerry Lewis) from The Original Nutty Professor taught me a lot when he said, " You might as well like yourself, think of all the time you have to spend with you."
My advice would be to relax, go out on a weekend and try to find something else. Yourself.
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