I hear a lot about bucket lists. I dunno, maybe I have one. More of my 'lists' are current lists, 5 year lists, 25 year lists...but I guess they all could be bucket lists because we don't know how much time we've got at the dance. Over the past 2 years my wants have drastically changed. I've been focusing on simpler things, true things. Not reaching so much for more, just trying to enjoy what is here more. That goes for family, friends, opportunity, relationships...not material things. (Except I really really want a canoe or kayak so I can get out on the water soon) Is it possible to make a list that won't change? Is it possible to remain true to the values of a 34 year old father, when those very values seem to have shifted based on life experiences? Are the items on my list too specific? Maybe... Love Honesty Compassion Health Fun More to come on this one I'm pretty sure.
Now is probably a good time to check back in. It's been several years, miles, smiles and tears since I've last posted. Rather than bore you with a full on recap in one giant post, I think it will be good to reflect on a few things that have been happening one post at a time. Eventually we'll get caught up. Today's post is focused on the irony of life. In particular, the brutal separation in society created by money; those who have it and those who don't. I work at a casino near my hometown, and it's been such a great opportunity filled with many amazing insights into cultural divides and life in general. On most days I park in the employee parking lot, walk past a few homeless men or women on my way into a building filled with equal parts prosperity and despair. On one side, there are the folks gaming for entertainment. They have been blessed in one way or another to have the opportunity to visit the casino and spend amounts of money without fear of cons...