Our wedding is approximately seven and a half hours away. My son (who is obviously worn out because he stayed up too late with grandma and grandpa last night) is still asleep in bed - and I'm a little jittery so I thought it'd be a good idea to throw something against the wall. I read an amazing blog called i am husband dot com and recently came across some words from actor Will Smith; a little portion of an interview in Reader's Digest where Will shed some real knowledge. RD: You and Jada have been married nine years and, by all accounts, are very happy. What's the key? Smith: Communication. And divorce cannot be an option. RD: Your first marriage ended in divorce. Smith: That is probably the most painful loss of my life. I quit. I could have fixed it. It really was not that bad. RD: Some would say there's no reason to stay if a marriage isn't good. Smith: Once you say that, you've lost. With Jada, I stood up in front of God and my family and friends and ...